Session 2: Finding Clients & Proposals
The work exists; the problem is being found by it. This session covers where clients actually are, how to approach them ethically, how to understand what they really need, and how to write a proposal that wins work rather than joining a pile.
Learning objectives
By the end of this session you will be able to do each of these without prompting.
- Find potential clients ethically through channels that actually convert
- Communicate professionally in first contact
- Ask questions that reveal the real requirement
- Write a proposal structured to win rather than to describe
- Quote confidently and handle the price conversation
- Follow up in a way that closes rather than annoys
The taught content
Where clients actually are
Clients come from four routes, and they convert in a very different order. People who already know you — former classmates, colleagues, church members, family friends, past employers. This is where almost every freelancer's first three clients come from, because trust already exists and trust is most of the sale. Most people skip it out of embarrassment, which is a mistake: telling people what you now do is not begging, it is information they need.
Referrals — clients sent by other clients. The highest-converting route there is, because the trust is transferred. It does not happen by accident; it happens when you finish work well and ask. Direct approach — contacting a business or organisation whose problem you can see. Lower conversion, but unlimited supply, and in Nigeria an in-person visit to a shop, office or church office still works better than any message.
Inbound — people finding you through your content, your portfolio or a platform. Slowest to build and best long-term, because it produces clients who already want you rather than clients you had to persuade. The practical sequence for a beginner: work the people you know this week, start asking for referrals from the first completed job, make five direct approaches a week, and build inbound steadily in the background.
Approaching ethically and communicating well
Ethical client-finding means offering value rather than extracting attention. A cold message that says 'I noticed your price list is hard to read from the counter — I design menus for restaurants and I have an idea that would help. May I send you a quick example?' is an offer. 'Hello sir/ma, I am a graphic designer, please check my page and give me work' is a request, and it is ignored because it asks the reader to do all the work.
The pattern that works: notice something specific, offer something concrete, ask for a small next step. Specificity proves you actually looked. A concrete offer gives them something to say yes to. A small next step — 'may I send a quick example?' — is easy to agree to, and once they say yes the conversation exists.
Then the discipline of professional communication. Reply promptly, even if only to say you will come back with a proper answer. Write in complete sentences with correct spelling. Never over-promise a deadline to win a job. Never disparage another freelancer. Confirm agreements in writing, however informal the relationship. These are small things and they are most of what makes someone look professional, because clients judge reliability from the first three messages.
Understanding the real requirement
What a client asks for is rarely what they need. 'I need a new logo' usually means 'the business does not look established'. 'I need a website' often means 'people cannot find our prices'. 'I need someone to manage my Instagram' frequently means 'nobody is buying'. If you build exactly what was asked, you may deliver the wrong thing perfectly.
So ask about the outcome before the deliverable. Five questions uncover almost everything: What is the business trying to achieve in the next few months? What is happening now that is not working? Who is the customer? What has been tried already? What would make this project a success for you? Their answers reveal whether the logo is the right solution at all, and they give you language for the proposal that is theirs rather than yours.
Two things happen when you ask. You learn the real problem, which means your proposal can address it rather than the surface request. And you demonstrate competence, because almost nobody asks — most freelancers quote immediately from the brief, which signals they are order-takers. The one who asks five good questions is presumed to know more, and is usually right to be.
Writing the proposal
A proposal that wins has five parts and fits on one page. The problem, in their words — repeat back what they told you, because being understood is persuasive in a way no claim about yourself is. What you will do, as a specific list of deliverables, not as a description of your process. The timeline, with dates rather than durations. The price, stated clearly with what it includes and what it does not. The next step — what they do to start, usually a deposit.
Two habits decide whether it is read. Lead with them, not with you — the biography and the list of tools belong at the bottom or nowhere, because the client is thinking about their problem, not your qualifications. And be specific about exclusions: 'This covers the menu design and two print-ready files. It does not include photography or printing costs.' Stating what is not included is what prevents the argument later, and clients respect it rather than resenting it.
Then send it properly: a clean document, not a message; a clear subject line; a date; a validity period of two weeks, which creates a genuine reason to decide. Follow up once after three days with something useful rather than 'any update?' — an example of similar work, or a note on something you noticed. One useful follow-up closes jobs; five anxious ones lose them.
The price conversation and saying no
Quote the number and then stop talking. The most common way a freelancer loses money is explaining the price before the client has reacted — filling the silence with justification that invites negotiation. State the price, state what it includes, and wait.
When it is challenged, do not discount first. Ask what they had in mind, then change the scope rather than the price: 'At ₦40,000 that is four graphics a month. If the budget is ₦25,000, I can do two a month.' This protects your rate, keeps the client, and teaches them that price follows scope — which is the most useful thing a client can learn about working with you.
And say no when you should. A client who wants everything for nothing, argues about every deliverable, or pays late on the first small job will be worse on a big one. Turning down bad work is not lost income; it is protected time, and time is the only asset a freelancer cannot buy back. The rule that works: if a job feels wrong before it starts, it will be wrong while it runs.
Instructor demonstration
The instructor works a live pipeline: writing an ethical cold approach to a real business, running the discovery questions that reveal the real requirement, drafting a one-page proposal from the answers, then handling the price objection by changing scope rather than discounting.
- 01
Map the four client routes
Lay out people who know you, referrals, direct approach and inbound with their conversion order. Explain that almost every first client comes from the first route.
- 02
List the people you know
Write twenty names of people who could refer work. Explain that telling people what you do is information they need rather than a request for charity.
- 03
Choose a direct target
Pick a real business with a visible problem. Explain that a specific observation is what makes an approach credible.
- 04
Write the cold approach
Draft notice, offer, small next step. Show the generic 'please give me work' version beside it and explain why it is ignored.
- 05
Run the discovery questions
Ask what the business is trying to achieve, what is not working, who the customer is, what was tried and what success looks like.
- 06
Identify the real requirement
Show how 'I need a logo' becomes 'the business does not look established'. Explain that building exactly what was asked can deliver the wrong thing perfectly.
- 07
Use their language
Quote the client's own words back in the proposal draft. Explain that being understood persuades more than any claim about yourself.
- 08
Draft the one-page proposal
Write problem, deliverables, timeline with dates, price with inclusions and exclusions, and the next step.
- 09
State the exclusions
Write what the price does not cover. Explain that this prevents the later argument and that clients respect it rather than resenting it.
- 10
Quote and stop
State the number, state what it includes, then stay silent. Explain that filling the silence with justification invites the negotiation you were trying to avoid.
- 11
Handle the objection
Take 'it is too expensive' and change the scope rather than the price. Show how this protects the rate and teaches the client that price follows scope.
- 12
Send and follow up once
Send a clean dated document with a two-week validity, then follow up in three days with something useful. Explain why one useful follow-up closes and five anxious ones lose.
Guided practice
Build a pipeline and write a winning proposal
You list twenty people who could refer work, write three ethical cold approaches to real businesses with visible problems, run the five discovery questions on one, and write a one-page proposal from their answers with dates, a clear price, stated exclusions and a next step — then rehearse the price objection by changing scope.
- 01Write twenty names of people who already know you and could refer work.
- 02Send five of them a short, specific note about what you now do.
- 03Identify three real businesses with a problem you can see.
- 04For each, write the specific observation that opens the approach.
- 05Draft the approach as notice, concrete offer, small next step.
- 06Check that each approach offers value rather than asking for work.
- 07Run the five discovery questions on one of them.
- 08Write down what they actually need, which may differ from what they asked for.
- 09Draft a one-page proposal leading with their problem in their own words.
- 10List deliverables specifically, with dates rather than durations.
- 11State the price with what it includes and what it excludes.
- 12Add a validity period of two weeks and a clear next step.
- 13Send it as a clean document with a clear subject line, not as a message.
- 14Rehearse the price objection by changing scope rather than discounting.
- 15Write the one useful follow-up you will send after three days.
The standard we hold you to
Twenty referral names with five contacted, three cold approaches each opening with a specific observation and ending in a small next step, five discovery questions actually asked with the real requirement written down separately from the request, and a one-page proposal leading with the client's problem in their words, listing dated deliverables, stating price with inclusions and exclusions, carrying a two-week validity and a clear next step — plus a rehearsed scope change instead of a discount and one useful follow-up drafted.
Common mistakes and how to fix them
You skip the people who already know you
Fix: List twenty names and tell five of them what you now do. Trust already exists with them and trust is most of the sale; almost every freelancer's first clients come from here.
Your approach asks for work instead of offering value
Fix: Notice something specific, offer something concrete, ask for a small next step. 'Please check my page and give me work' asks the reader to do all the work, so it is ignored.
You quote from the brief without asking questions
Fix: Ask five discovery questions first. Clients who ask for a logo often need to look established, and quoting immediately marks you as an order-taker rather than a professional.
Your proposal leads with your biography
Fix: Lead with their problem in their words. The client is thinking about their business, not your tools, and being understood persuades more than any list of qualifications.
You did not state exclusions
Fix: Write what the price does not cover. It prevents the later argument about photography or printing, and clients respect the clarity rather than resenting it.
You justify the price before they react
Fix: State the number, state what it includes, and wait. Filling the silence invites exactly the negotiation you were trying to avoid, and it signals you are unsure of the figure.
You discount when challenged
Fix: Change the scope instead: fewer deliverables at the lower budget. This protects your rate, keeps the client and teaches them that price follows scope.
You follow up five times with 'any update?'
Fix: Send one useful follow-up after three days — an example, an observation, a deadline. Repeated anxious follow-ups signal desperation and cost you the job.
Expert notes
The habits that separate someone who can do this from someone who does it well.
- Work the people who already know you before any cold outreach. Trust is most of the sale and it already exists there; telling people what you now do is information they need, not a favour you are asking for.
- Ask five discovery questions before you quote, every time. They reveal whether the requested deliverable solves the real problem, and asking at all separates you from the freelancers who quote straight from the brief.
- Change scope rather than price when a client pushes back. It protects your rate, keeps the relationship and teaches the client the rule that will make every future conversation easier.
- Say no to work that feels wrong before it starts. A client who argues about every deliverable or pays late on a small job will be worse on a large one, and protected time is the only asset you cannot buy back.
Key terms
- Pipeline
- The set of prospects at each stage: contacted, talking, proposed, won. Freelancing fails without one.
- Referral
- A client sent by another client. The highest-converting source, and it must be asked for.
- Cold approach
- Contacting a prospect who does not know you. Works when it offers something specific rather than asking for work.
- Discovery questions
- The questions that reveal the real requirement before you quote. Asking them is itself a signal of competence.
- Proposal
- A one-page document: their problem, your deliverables, dated timeline, price with exclusions, next step.
- Exclusions
- What the price does not cover. Stating them prevents later disputes and reads as professional.
- Scope change
- Adjusting deliverables instead of discounting when a budget is lower. Protects your rate.
- Validity period
- How long a quote stands. Two weeks creates a genuine reason to decide.
Homework before the next session
List twenty referral names
People who already know you. Send five of them a short, specific note about what you now do and what kind of work you are taking on.
Write three cold approaches
Each opening with a specific observation about a real business, offering something concrete, and asking for a small next step. No 'please give me work'.
Ask five discovery questions
To a real prospect: what they are trying to achieve, what is not working, who the customer is, what has been tried, what success looks like. Write the answers verbatim.
Write one one-page proposal
Their problem in their words, dated deliverables, price with inclusions and exclusions, two-week validity, clear next step. Send it as a clean document.
Assessment rubric
How this session is marked. The certificate for Business & Freelancing is awarded on the deliverable, not on attendance.
| Criterion | Passing | Excellent |
|---|---|---|
| Prospecting | Knows where clients are. | Twenty referral names with five contacted, three specific cold approaches drafted, and all four routes understood in order of conversion. |
| Ethical approach | Sends messages. | Every approach opens with a specific observation, offers something concrete and asks for a small next step rather than requesting work. |
| Discovery | Takes the brief. | Five questions asked, answers recorded verbatim, and the real requirement written down separately from what was requested. |
| Proposal | Sends a price. | A one-page document leading with the client's problem, dated deliverables, price with stated exclusions, a validity period and a clear next step. |
| Negotiation | Quotes a figure. | States the price and waits, changes scope rather than discounting when challenged, and declines work that feels wrong before it starts. |
Session questions
How do I get clients with no experience?+
Start with people who already know you — trust is most of the sale and it already exists. Then do three pieces for real local businesses at low cost in exchange for permission to show them, and ask every completed client for one referral. Three named case studies plus a referral habit is enough to start.
Are freelancing platforms worth it?+
They are a starting point, not a destination. Competition is heavy and prices are pushed down, but they teach you to write proposals and they produce your first evidence. The aim is to move clients you meet there onto direct terms where the margin is real, and to build inbound so you are not dependent on a platform.
What should I write in a cold message?+
Notice something specific, offer something concrete, ask for a small next step. One short paragraph, no attachments, no long biography. 'I noticed your price list is hard to read from the counter — may I send you a quick example?' outperforms any polished introduction.
How do I handle 'it is too expensive'?+
Ask what they had in mind, then change the scope rather than the price: fewer deliverables at their budget. Discounting teaches clients that your first price was inflated; a scope change teaches them that price follows scope, which makes every future conversation easier.
How often should I follow up on a proposal?+
Once, after three days, with something useful — an example of similar work or a note on something you noticed. If there is no reply after that, send one final note a week later and move on. Repeated 'any update?' messages signal desperation and cost you the job.
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